EXCLUSIVE: Dingdong Bahan says he is in the ‘happiest version’ of himself, shares thoughts on finding closure
Dingdong Bahan believes that finding closure after a breakup begins with oneself, emphasizing that people cannot always expect others to provide the answers or understanding they need. He also maintained that he is currently in the ‘happiest version’ of himself.
In an interview with PUSH ABS-CBN during a rehearsal for his theater debut in The Art of Breaking Up, the actor shared his thoughts on closure as the play explores different relationships and the circumstances that lead to their end.
Apart from discussing what audiences can learn from the production and how he prepared to portray his character, Ferdz, Dingdong also offered his perspective on accepting the things that are beyond one’s control.
“I think closure is something na ikaw ‘yung magbibigay sa sarili mo. Kung meron kang hindi maco-control, ito ‘yung ibang tao — kung paano sila mag-isip, kung paano sila magmahal, kung paano sila magka-gusto,” he said.
His perspective comes amid his own experience with heartbreak. Last April, Dingdong’s ex-boyfriend and fellow Pinoy Big Brother alum Patrick Ramirez announced their breakup, which came on what would have been their second anniversary.
For the Honor Thy Mother actor, seeking closure should not mean forcing another person to provide it. Instead, he believes that choosing to give it to oneself can help someone move forward and recognize their own worth.
“Definitely, ‘yung closure, hindi mo rin pwedeng ipilit sa kanila. Kasi it’s their character eh. Kung hindi sila [makapagbigay] ng closure, i-regalo mo ‘yun sa sarili mo kasi mas mapapalaya ka, mas makikita mo ‘yung worth mo.”
He further explained how taking that step can also help a person become more confident in moving forward.
“Mas nakakatapang siya personally na ikaw mismo ang nagbigay ng closure sa sarili mo,” he maintained.
Dingdong also said that his heart is happy now, describing himself as being in the “happiest version” of himself.
“Masaya [ang] puso ko ngayon. Sobrang saya. Sabi ko nga, I’m happy…I’m in my happiest version of myself now,” he said.
“I think nagra-radiate siya. Kasi everytime na nagkaka-work ako or may new production people akong nakakasama, ibang iba ‘yung pagkakakilala nila sa akin before compared to ngayon. They’re very happy also…mas nakikita ng ibang tao na ‘ang gaang-gaang ni Dingdong ngayon,’ gano’n,” he added.
Outside his acting projects, Dingdong has been sharing glimpses of how he spends his time and takes care of himself. Through his TikTok account, he regularly posts updates about his fitness journey, including his gym sessions and running activities.
Took my phone out to record this while walking. I know myself, mawawala to pag di ko narecord. One of my best secrets ngayon bakit ang gaan ng buhay ko—factors naman don ay mga tao sa paligid ko but ultimately changing my perspective in life. Hope you guys can finish this video and share this to your homies. Mag mahal na lang tayo.
He has also used the platform to share personal reflections and advice, connecting with followers through his thoughts on life and relationships.
Following his stint in Pinoy Big Brother, Dingdong has continued to pursue acting opportunities, appearing in the series What Lies Beneath and Honor Thy Mother.