Coming on easy
Credit to Author: Tempo Desk| Date: Tue, 07 May 2019 08:25:50 +0000
Dear Ma’am Rica,
Meron akong isang problem na medyo nakakahiya at medyo unique. Lagi kasi akong nag-oorgasm. Alam kong medyo different sya kasi mas maraming babae na ang problema naman ay hindi sila nakaka-experience ng orgasm. Pero medyo nabobother na ako kasi minsan kahit sa work bigla na lang. Or kung may kakandong sakin ayun din. Minsan, yung vagina ko medyo masakit at makati na. May times din na medyo hindi maganda yung amoy nya at hindi ko alam kung bakit. Gusto ko na sanang ikonsulta ito pero baka naman even sa check up, mag-orgasm ako. Nakakahiya naman. Patulong naman kasi nahihiya din ako magtanong sa iba. Salamat!
EDSA-Panay
Hello EDSA-Panay,
Talaga namang sa pangalan mo pa lang, panay orgasm din talagaang iyong concern. While hindi sya well known concern, hindika din naman nag-iisa sa pagoorgasm lagi kahit na hindi kanatuturn on. Pero kailangan mo din isipin na ang symptoms naito ay maaaring dahil sa persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD) or persistent sexual arousal syndrome (PSAS). Usually ang PGAD ay iba from sexual arousal na associated with desire and is triggered by nonsexual stimulation o kahit walang cause at all.
I am more concerned about the itching and foul odor. Kailanganmo itong ipacheck dahil maaaring sign ito ng infection at kailangan mo talaga ng medical attention para dito.
For the PGAD, physical and psychological ang theories behind this. Medyo challenging ang treatment dito dahil yung cause mismo ang hindi pa 100% determined and walang traditional treatment for this. Try to find out kung ano ang triggers ng iyongorgasms and try to be as prepared as you can. When you are able to identify these, mas mamamanage mo sya. I think mas trial and error ang approach on how you will be able to handle your situation. I hope this would be helpful. But I suggest you still see a medical professional. Wag kang mahihiya sa kanila. They are there to help you. Always enjoy but be safe!
With Love and Lust,
Rica
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Biography: Rica Cruz is a Licensed Psychologist and Sex Therapist. She comes out as the Resident Sex Therapist on Boys’ Night Out every Thursday night on Magic 89.9.