Marriage material

Credit to Author: Tempo Desk| Date: Mon, 27 Jan 2020 16:45:13 +0000

Dear Manay Gina,

I am 24 years old and I have known my boyfriend for al­most nine years. We’ve been dating for almost three years. Lately, I have been want­ing to move on with my life. Actually, I really want to get married and have a family in the next few years. However, my boyfriend disagrees. He reasons that we still have a lot to achieve in life and there shouldn’t be any rush.

Does this mean that he thinks I’m not a marriage material?

                                                                                    Rose

Dear Rose,

I wish I could offer you enough clarity about what pushing some­one into marriage tends to lead to, when partners don’t have the same goals. However, what I know for sure is: You cannot form a solid future with someone when you don’t respect his choice of not getting married yet.

You should enter this married life with your guy by your side, not pushing him from behind. His refusal to get married doesn’t necessarily mean that he d
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