How to develop a magnetic personality

Credit to Author: Murali Murthy| Date: Mon, 18 Apr 2022 20:16:12 +0000

What does it mean to have charisma? Let’s admit it, we would all like to have a magnetic personality. But is that something you can cultivate in yourself?

Yes, you can definitely build personality traits to attract more of the people you want in your life. With a magnetic personality, you can easily build friendships, expand your social circle, develop your influence in your personal and professional endeavours, easily influence and win the trust of others and rise to leadership positions.

Are you ready to cultivate those qualities and become the kind of person others will look up to?  Read on to learn more about the personality traits of magnetic people and how you can develop those in yourself.

Authentic

When we come across a magnetic person, what stands out first is their vibe. They are genuinely interested in meeting people and even express their joy when interacting with others. They give people the feeling that they respect their ideas, thoughts, experience and points of view.

Within 30 seconds of meeting anyone, the magnetic personality can make the other person feel important. They do this by getting engrossed in their interactions, maintaining eye contact and showing empathy. What’s more, magnetic personalities don’t fake anything but are authentic and real. This quality encourages others to do the same.

Self-aware

Charismatic personalities know their worth, they know their strengths and weaknesses and turn them to their advantage. These people exemplify positivity. They see the good in a situation without being judgmental. By exhibiting compassion and understanding, they draw more people to them.

Magnetic personalities take the time to listen, letting the other person speak and when it is their turn, they communicate with a genuine interest in what the other person is saying. As they model active listening, they also help others become better listeners. 

Energetic

The first thing you notice about charismatic personalities is that they are buzzing with energy. This is the kind of energy that you want to incorporate more of in your life. You too can electrify your environment by investing your energy in helping others and pursuing more of what makes life better. Without enthusiasm, nothing great can be achieved so always fill your life with energy and exuberance. 

Eloquent

Charming personalities speak from their heart and know what to say, when to say and how to say it. The captivating personality is educated, constantly learning and always people-centered. This also helps to look for common ground first and work from there.

They start by empathizing with others and treat people with compassion. They make sure to gain insights into what others need and validate their feelings. Magnetic people also pay great attention to detail, are good at remembering names and other personal details that people have shared about themselves. It is these smaller details that makes others feel like they matter.

Inspiring others

The magnetic person sees the best in others and constantly inspires them to do better. They are  constantly modeling healthy, positive behaviour for everyone to emulate.

They focus on the good in others and in what they share, making those people view themselves in a more positive light. This is how people you impact can carry a more magnetic vibe themselves.

Going beyond just appearances, personal magnetism is soul deep. Starting today, get in touch with your authentic self, get real about your gifts and talents, and find a mentor or counsellor who can help you become a better version of yourself.

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